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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Also, what PP said is so true - do not start drama between family and friends, that would be terrible for your SIL!! You are behaving in a very controlling and self-absorbed manner.[/quote]

I do not think OP is self absorbed at all, she is just mature enough(apart from initial meddling) to wonder about logistics, and it is not clear if friend is organizing, OP is co hosting, and if I was in this situation, and it is at my house, guess what? It is my responsibility and people are not going to care that things are disorganized, food is not there, because I tell them, I am just lending them my house as a venue! Hence OP will look like a shitty SIL when things go bad and she will be blamed. Things need to be completely clear about what is happening. Otherwise, SIL can just make a huge banner that reads "I am not hosting this party, my house is a venue just like a restaurant would be. All complaints should be directed to bride's friend!" Of course, it does sound like OP was trying to butt in with offering help and her house, and without her offering(hindsight is great, no) she wouldn't be in this mess, but she is in it now, even if by her own meddling.[/quote]

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