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[quote=Anonymous]I recommend having a talk with your SIL. Keep in mind that younger people are still terrible communicators, they think all is assumed and all is great, let's chill and not clue about real planning. As of right now, it seems that your have no clear idea if this is just an enthusiastic friend or is she truly hosting the party and know the enormous cost and time to do this party. Be direct, but nice, talk to the friend too. "Hey, I am a bit confused about the engagement party, are you hosting it, are you organizing everything, are you paying for everything?" What is the bride thinking is happening? Does she even know that this friend is acting like she is organizing, or are you going to end up with the huge bill catering to some friend's ideas? I think being nice, honest and blunt to clarify everything is the best way. Sure, it sounds like the friend is organizing, but I met too many younger people who talk a lot and do very little, and pay for even less.[/quote]
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