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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- been here done this. The one thing that worked for me is having my fiancés support and my family. You need to tell your family what is going on cause right now you are almost being gaslighted. He doesn't think they are racist when they obviously are and you haven't confided in you family about what is going on so you are going a little nuts.

Tell your family. Come what may you are going to need some family some where. If he doesn't put his foot down on his family and demand that they stop disrespecting you then you need to end this. Cause if he won't do it now, he won't do it later for your children and it will just get worst. If he does do that then you both can turn to the warm embrace of your family to support you.  What you need right now is support, your not getting it from him and your family has no clue so you get nothing from them.

Your fiancé is the only one in a position to do something about his family. He has to either demand their respect and civility or he will step away from them. If his family loves him they will comply. You may have to check them several times and reiterate the demand and that is fine. If they say no to his demand then they have shown who they are and that they don't really have any love for him.

If he won't do this, you need to end this.[/quote]

This is OP.

They have become civil. But I am rattled due to their initial treatment of me. We are civil and polite when we meet and I do not say much as I just do not want drama and want out of there. [/quote]

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