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[quote=Anonymous]My MIL used to be very racist towards me. She now treats me with respect, though it's been rocky, and I don't think this outcome is likely for most others. When my MIL was at her worst, I started making up reasons why I couldn't go to see her. We all knew that I was just refusing to see her. DH would go alone. I didn't see her for a few years, and I made peace with this. It was very hard on DH as he still loved his mother, even though he was very angry with her. If someone is so racist as to dehumanize you, you don't owe them your presence. You don't have to be around them, and you don't have to feel guilty about it. My husband and I have an amazing marriage, and I can't imagine missing out on all of this just because of his mother. But, only you know if you can deal with this and still be happy. [/quote]
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