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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I had a crush on a coworker who flirted with me often.  Then I came to the realization that I didn't really care about this coworker - I just liked having someone interested in me.  I talked to DH about going out more together without the kids and doing more fun things together as a couple.  DH agreed, and it really helped me to move past my ridiculous crush on this coworker.[/quote]

This happened to me once after I had my third child in four years. I was feeling like a mom and not like a woman even though my DH was still very attracted to me. I was at a week long seminar and an older guy in my group made it clear he was interested in me and it felt very good. The last night we had a couple of drinks together and I let him kiss me. He then said "I want to give you pleasure". That dumb line snapped me out of my fog and I said a quick good night. I felt like such a fool risking my very good life and marriage. I told my DH what had happened and while he was angry he was more bothered that I hadn't told him that I was feeling like nothing more than a baby machine. For all the years since he's been very good about reminding me that I'm a woman! [/quote]

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