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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]This isn't a good example of middle ground and in your example, you are more like OP than you think.[/quote]

Hmm, interesting. FWIW, am often "spouse B' in this scenario. My spouse's desire to know if I am home for dinner or not and when to expect me does not seem unreasonable--it is not a passive aggressive complaint, it is simply wanting to know how to plan the evening. We have two kids who need to be put to bed, etc, so I always be sure to ask if its okay to go out and let my spouse know when I think I'm home. If he hasn't heard from my after my expected return, I am usually the one to check in but if I forget and he checks in, I dont take it as anything other than his making sure all is okay. . He would do the same for me. I totally get why people are jumping on OP--because she's being incredibly passive aggressive rather than simply communicating with her spouse. But I dont think its unreasonable to communicate or expect communication from your spouse about your whereabouts, especially when drinking is involved. [/quote]

SO WHY DIDN'T SHE ASK[/quote]

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