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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree that they are not quite the same, but remember that if a man "stealths" you (ugh), and gets you pregnant, you can still get the morning after pill, or an abortion. Obviously, that doesn't help if he gives you HIV, or a chronic STD, but pregnancy is statistically the biggest danger.

For men, if a women tricks them, they can't do anything about it. They are trapped. Yeah, they can always wear a condom, but isn't that like telling a sexual assault victim that she "shouldn't have been drinking/dressed provocatively, etc."?[/quote]
They're trapped with child support payments at the worst. Getting a woman pregnant who doesn't want to results in a physical hardship. 
And if men don't want to take the risk of pregnancy, they should either use a condom or abstain, because BC can fail even if she promises she is taking it. It doesn't prove that she's taking it every day at the same time or regularly.

I do not think that babies are punishments, but every time you have sex you take on the risk that it may end up in a pregnancy. However, it doesn't have to end in an STD[/quote]

You sure want to make it sound like being trapped with child support payments is no big deal. And it's obviously not just about money. Having an unexpected/unwanted child is a major life altering event on every level.

Sure men can "abstain" if they are worried. And so can women, using your own dismissive logic.[/quote]

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