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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is how my husband works, or rather procrastinates. He has ADHD, and that is pretty typical behavior for inattentive types. He is also late, forgetful, not very productive (albeit highly intelligent and he's hired to troubleshoot).

So, I suppose that's your girlfriend's personality. What other symptoms have you seen?
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Honestly, that seems exactly like her.

She is a great person but I worry that if we marry, I will fall into a parenting role. [/quote]

You will.
I have inattentive ADHD & I'm the female version of this woman's husband.

My husband takes the brunt of the carpooling & anything else that requires a timeline.  I am all over the nuturing role and this seems to work for us, as my husband has a stressful job & can't always be attentive to them.

However, you WILL always have to be the responsible one (bills, banking, etc).  If this isn't what you want for your future, I wouldn't marry her.

The ONLY way she's going to start taking this seriously is if she gets a scare, like you not marrying her or losing her apartment (but then she'll just suggest moving in together since you're getting married anyway... watch out for that!).

We don't put things into high gear unless we're afraid of consequences... sorry, but it's true.[/quote]

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