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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he is truly apologetic and you think he has good intentions, maybe he has ADHD. He reminds me a lot of my husband. We have a similar system to PP where he has a lot of set tasks he does every day, while I handle more unpredictable stuff. Also, LISTS. Lists everywhere.

Can't really help you with the not being home when he says he will thing, though. That makes me wonder if he is just avoiding chores at home... [/quote]

I do believe he is sorry and has good intentions. I don't think he has ADHD at all. He actually has laser focus...for work. I do think a set of tasks with a list could help though. [/quote]

Laser focus on one thing, oblivious to everything else? Classic ADHD! I think you might be getting your answer, OP. Can you gently bring this up with him?

I'm the first PP being quoted here - my DH can sit and work on his hobby for hours and hours (meanwhile tuning out everything else going on around him). It's like it takes all his mental energy to focus on the thing he actually wants to focus on, there's no attention left for anything else. [/quote]

Buckle up if you want a lifetime of an ADHD manchild. It's an insulting way to live even on a daily basis, as you can never count on him.[/quote]

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