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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nope. Unless she's abusive to the kids (and she may very well be), theirs is a separate relationship from yours. I wouldn't deny my kids a relationship with their grandparents solely because the grandparent is mean to me. Only if their own unique relationship is toxic.[/quote] Agree with this. My grandmother was pretty awful to my mom (her daughter) and she was also abusive to me and my brother (lashed out at us, sent us nasty letters to 'get back' at my mom, was manipulative). My mom should have been more protective than she was. But it's that situation that warrants keeping your kids from your mother.[/quote] But don't you see how predictive it is? A parent who has a toxic relationship with their own adult child is not going to have a healthy relationship with their grandchild. It just doesn't work that way. [/quote]
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