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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm not in a position to give advice, as my situation is much worse, but I wanted to say I understand you. I am supposed to get married in June and am also calling off the wedding (for stronger reasons than you listed). I am embarrassed to cancel, but I know it's right. People ask me if I'm excited, if I'm ready, tell me they've picked their dates and outfits, and I feel horrible knowing that I'm calling it off. I'm sad that my parents lose deposit money, I'm sad all of the effort went to waste. But my parents and close friends support me and anyone who truly loves and cares about me won't judge or condemn me for cancelling. You should feel the same way!

Amongst many other issues, my fiancé is exactly the same as yours as it relates to his family. He also spends several days per week at his parents' house. I have come to learn that he is dependent on them (and me). He has no life outside of me, his kids and his parents and sibling. If he isn't talking to me, he's talking to his mom. He goes with them or me everywhere. He doesn't have a strong social life and very few friends. He has poor self esteem.

Try to think deeper as to why your fiancé is with his family so much. Is he dependent on them? Does he have a life outside of them? It may be a bigger problem than you realize, such as in my case. It may really deeply describe the type of person he is and what he is lacking.

Good luck OP![/quote]

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