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Reply to "Freaking out a bit. Wedding is in two weeks and I can't shake obvious red flags."
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[quote=Anonymous] Let me explain it in terms you can understand. This is about everybody saving face, but more importantly, it's about diagnosing this man. His behavior is outside the norm and warrants some type of expert evaluation. Delay. Delay. Delay. Then, when he's gone to a psychologist and to therapy and hasn't gotten better, you can call it off in good conscience. What you'll find is that he is probably a deeply anxious person with a social communication disorder. While you may be able to live with that (complaining and suffering all the while), the problem is that these things are hereditary to some degree. You want kids - do you want them to inherit those traits? The anxiety will manifest itself in lots of different, yet all burdensome, ways. I can tell you it's even harder dealing with a family of affected people than with just one affected spouse (ask me how I know). [/quote]
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