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[quote=Anonymous]Hey OP, let me ask you a question.  Are you and your fiancée from different cultural backgrounds? We had a cousin who is super close to her mom and sisters, and her ex-husband didn't understand why she spent so much time with them. It's a cultural thing- just the way they grew up. Long story short, they  married (huge wedding!!) and had a baby shortly after.  Her mother moved in for a year to help them out. Free child care, cooking, let them sleep in, thought she was "helping". It's normal in some cultures. My sister came 2 days in a row when I delivered, and yes we dote over each other's scholdren. Isn't that normal? Depends on your upbringing. So well one morning when the baby was about  14 months, my cousins husband packed his bags and moved out. He never returned. They divorced and the mom and grandma raised the child by themselves. My cousin didn't understand that he needed to have space from her immediate family, and failed to empathize with him and his needs. Show your fiancée this thread now. Now is the time to discuss & call it off. I can guarantee you my cousins ex-husband bottled up his feelings until he couldn't anymore. The next time I saw them "together" was at the HS graduation of their child. Don't do that. Don't be a coward. Speak up now and break it off.

**Everything that bothers you when you are dating is magnified by 100,000,000 when married***. Trust me on that. [/quote]

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