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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not a lot but he'd eat more if we let him. We already limit carbs to one serving but let him have his meats. And he'd ask what breakfasts gonna be before bed.

I'm really trying to find out why he's obsessed with food.[/quote]

He's obsessed with food because he's growing, and on the cusp of growing even more quickly, and his body is screaming at him that he needs food to prepare for upcoming growth, but it's being denied to him.  He NEEDS carbs for growth and limiting him to one serving is cruel and setting him up for failure.

He's also obsessed with food because he doesn't consistently get his needs met in this area, so he's constantly worried about the next time that's going to happen.

Put healthy food on the table, and allow him to monitor for himself how much he eats.  Two pork chops, or three pieces of chicken, and a couple servings of rice or potatoes is a good place to start a meal for a kid at this stage.[/quote]

Don't you guys get it?  There are some kids (of course, not the majority... but a few) who are obsessed with food and cannot make healthy decisions without their parents' help to guide them and teach them.  I wish it were not the case, but I have to take a strong role in my son's diet.  I did not make him obsessed with food... he has been this way his whole life.  I'm got to monitor and teach and hope that the lessons sink in before he goes off on his own.[/quote]

OP, have you ever observed litters of puppies or kittens?  Have you ever seen the food-seeking behavior of the runts when they are full grown?  The runts were not born being 'obsessed' with food; they became obsessed with food because of its scarcity when they were puppies and kittens.  This is simple behaviorist training.  Your 'strong role' in your son's diet [i]is[/i] causing his 'obsession'.[/quote]

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