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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Take your laundry to wash and fold. Or do your plan, but stop doing anyone else's laundry in any way. I think the person paying the maid should get the most benefit from her services, so the kids lose out on the priority list. I[b] would also say that since this doesn't affect your husband at all (he isn't going to end up with less service or more chores), just ignore him and redirect her.[/b][/quote] +1 Why does he care? The teens are too busy to do chores and have a hard life? Give me a freaking break. Either the kids are spoiled brats or DH is fishing for excuses to say no to OP. [/quote] Instead of parenting together, the dh is purposely undermining her. I would pull him aside and talk about team work. He needs to get on board especially in regard to the kids. Yes the kids too would get a wake up call which would make them better individuals in the long run. If she's done all this then I can tell you if it were me he'd see some BIG behavior changes that might be disturbing. [/quote]
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