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[quote=mshakespeare][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And BTW, you pushing him is assault. He doesn't have a victim syndrome. YOU actually assaulted him twice! [/quote]

Not really. If someone corners you in a room and doesn't let you leave, pushing them to get away from them doesn't sound like assault to me. Just the opposite. He sounds abusive and controlling and very manipulative. [/quote]

Borderline abusive...

Possibly controlling...

Maybe manipulative.

He is not hard to figure out though.

He is insecure and fears that if he doesn't deal with the argument to a reasonable conclusion - than his wife will leave him... A lot of people go through this. They are smart enough to know that their wife isn't happy - but not secure enough to know that it will pass and does not mean it's the end of the relationship - therefore, they try to resolve the conflict as soon as possible.

This only gets exacerbated when the wife doesn't want to resolve the issue right then and there.

Women can be like this as well...

He needs to get therapy and resolve his abandonment/insecurity issue. She needs to get to some anger management classes... If they both want to make the relationship work - they can then do some couples counseling to work on communicating.[/quote]

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