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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG! Op I think you just made me realized, in additional to other reasons, why I broke up with my ex. I think he was like you (shutting down and mute ) and I was like your husband ( speaking-up ). I actually learned something about myself from reading this thread. Note to self, I'm going to pay close attention to this type of behavior when I'm dating. I prefer a man that communicates like me and  doesn't shut down. [/quote]

Op here- I just ordered the book 'Attached'  on amazon. Look it up, everything i've read about attachment styles show why my relationship is failing. We are the worst possibility on the sttachment spectrum. Though i wanna add that there is a difference between what you wrote'speaking up' and Anxious Preoccupied. You might be of a Secure attachment style which is the 3rd style and the healthy one. Anxious Preocuppied which defines my DH is not healthy, as its not just speaking up, but the exxagerated reaction and anxiety they get at any sign that there might be an issue, regardless of how small the issue is.  Look it up if ure interested 
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