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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think my kids have started to realize they hate their father. Not sure how they feel about me. We have a dysfunctional marriage.  They are 12 and 15. Wish I could get in their heads. Wonder what they'd say if asked this question.....[/quote]

You should try to have a less dysfunctional relationship with their father and you should try to mend their relationship - speak positives about him to them and try to get him to find ways to have more positive time with his kids. You're messing up your kids lives lady.[/quote]

So you are saying the dysfunctional relationship is all my fault?  I am holding on for dear life and friends and family tell me everyday how strong I am and that the kids need me.  I am not going into the details of the marriage and why I stay versus go - but I was just sharing .....[/quote]

I can see why you have a dysfunctional relationship. You are hypersensitive and/or have a martyr complex.

The PP did not say ANYTHING about it being your fault. But - since you're the one on here saying that the kids hate their father - the PP was saying that YOU should try to mend the relationship the kids have with their father so that the kids can have a healthy relationship with their father. Also - instead of saying that you stay for the kids - or whatever ridiculous excuse you want to come up with - you should LEAVE.

You have a self-admitted dysfunctional family. What you are doing right now - is modeling to your children - that this is OKAY. That the family dynamic that they see is OKAY - and it is NOT. Your kids deserve to see a healthy relationship. They deserve to see a relationship where two people love each other, know how to communicate, and have a good relationship.

SHAME ON YOU![/quote]

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