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[quote=Anonymous]The work in cultural Judaism usually falls to the mother. She is the one typically responsible for making holiday dinners, shabbat, cleaning the house for pesach, shopping for hanukkah. The religious teachings tend to fall to the synagogue. The dads that I know that are involved in the religious upbringing of their jewish children are well versed in torah, religious teachings, and the underlying meanings. They are heavily involved in the jewish community--they are the type of men that would not marry a non-jewish woman. Much of raising a jewish child is about continuing on the traditions. It's hard to teach a child traditions that you did not grow up with. Yes, you can follow the rules but honestly, they often don't make any sense (and I'm jewish). There are just things that we do. I'm sure that I could go to the rabbi and learn the reasons behind our traditions but the specifics just aren't important to me and I follow the traditions "because it's what we do". I have a few non jewish friends that are raising their kids jewish. The common denominator I've seen is that when their husbands met them they were already on the path to conversion---they weren't converting for their husband, it was something that they felt that they had to do for themselves. Once they were married, their MILs helped them to learn the traditions that their husbands had grown up with. [/quote]
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