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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are SO many things wrong with gender communications.  OP, if you're smart and don't want a dead bedroom like most the people giving you advice , I suggest you approach this with an open mind.  He's likely shutting you out because you're miles away from what he thinks the problem is.  It engulfs him in grief to think he should have to spell out common courtesy to you.

Usually what upsets me most in these scenarios is that I'm an adult.  I'm capable of making my own decisions.  I love my spouse.  Yet my spouse is talking to me like I don't care about her feelings and that I'm not capable of deciding when thinks are appropriate and taking her best interest in my decision making process also.

For example 
DONT touch me !!!   Like wtf.  You invalidating me as a person when you make a demand like that , ignoring my desires.   I don't need you snapping like that.   
You should acknowledge him.   "Hey honey, I love the effection.  It just creeps me in front of our child.

If he left the house.  He is super hurt and pissed that you don't trust his judgements.   If you want a marriage and not a roommate ,  sincerely apologize to him and ignore the old hags here that have already ruined their marriages.

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+100; agree with everything here; tried to make this point earlier in the thread and got shut down.

And this is in no way validating the husband's actions! Get past this one petty argument and then go to therapy for the much bigger issues clearly going on![/quote]

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