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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Your wife seems to lack manners.[/b]  No big deal that MIL came by announanced, she is your mom and this announcing is beyond me.  I don't understand why your wife dislikes your family though, there must be some reason. Are you very young, both of you? Are you putting your mom and dad first and last, and your wife is annoyed by your lack of effort to show her that you are her husbands and not just your parent's kid.  If she feels that they come first to you, that would annoy the heck out of me and in that case resentment would be towards you and your family.  Think back and see how you act in your marriage, if answer is that you will drop anything as soon as your parents call, then you know the problem.  If that is not the case, ask your wife, why does she dislike your parental family. Just ask.[/quote]

Please explain how the wife is lacking in manners. All we know is that the mother drove by and was told that the son was sleeping. Wife didn't ignore the mother, nor did she tell her to f*&k off. She didn't call her names. Supposedly the child could be seen from the window, but still don't know if the wife knew the child wasn't sleeping.

How was the wife rude? [/quote]

She was rude by not inviting her MIL inside.  That is a first rule of polite behavior.  Even if MIL showed up unannounced, you invite friends and family in. That is how she was rude.  You don't set boundaries at that moment.  Excuse that kid was sleeping was lame, even if the kids was sleeping. Just how rude is our society becoming?[/quote]

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