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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does anyone else think the responses here are over the top? As OP said, it went from 'stop nagging' to 'leave him immediately!' [/quote] +1 It snowballed. I think some people have experienced a lot of hurt and want that not to happen to others. [/quote] Not at all. I see a man who drinks all the time despite the negative impact on his family AND he's a cruel drunk. He gets mad when OP asks him to cut back. I don't wish harm or sadness on her family at all- the opposite. Which is why I encouraged her to start looking at this as living with an alcoholic and how it impacts her kids who are the real casualties here. Grew up with this parent and it is ugly and heartbreaking and it will fundamentally affect the people they become and all their relationships. She needs to be thinking from that angle when she decides how much she's willing to take of this if he won't change or stop drinking. [/quote]
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