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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The "cuties" footage at the end of the finale very, very clearly proved that Zanab is batshit insane and rewrites things to make her to be a perpetual victim. Cole did absolutely nothing wrong in that scene. [/quote] You're nuts.[/quote] What did he say or do wrong? Truly? Zanab was projecting her own insecurities onto her restriction so she could fit into her dress, and blamed him. That's on her. [/quote] And if people noticed, he commented that he was simply asking because they both needed to save room for what he said was going to be a huge dinner they were going to later - nothing to do with her weight. He inquired as to why she had eaten so little earlier and even commented that he offered her more food than she ate. I didn’t get any “you need to lose weight” vibes; he merely guesses as to the reason why she had eaten so little. Should he have said “you’re beautiful and don’t need to lose weight”? Sure, maybe, but his comments beforehand weren’t malicious. He said "are you really going to eat two?" Why the eff did he say that then? What is that, 70 calories? I think he started backtracking when he remembered the cameras were on.[/quote] He did not say that. He said: "Are you about to eat two of those?" There was no hostility or judgment in his voice (unless you're projecting, obviously) and then Zanab followed up about WHY she is voluntarily choosing to restrict herself (for her dress). Jesus, as a woman who's struggled with weight and judgment most of my life, his question was completely and totally benign. It was his flighty curious question, and nothing more. [/quote][/quote] Sorry for the repost; my comment was in the wrong place. Original below. And if people noticed, he commented that he was simply asking because they both needed to save room for what he said was going to be a huge dinner they were going to later - nothing to do with her weight. He inquired as to why she had eaten so little earlier and even commented that he offered her more food than she ate. I didn’t get any “you need to lose weight” vibes; he merely guesses as to the reason why she had eaten so little. Should he have said “you’re beautiful and don’t need to lose weight”? Sure, maybe, but his comments beforehand weren’t malicious[/quote] Right? God forbid anyone talk about food with someone who is overweight or insecure. It was an orange, he didn't say it about a second cookie. He wanted to make sure she saved room for dinner so they could both enjoy the amount of food in front of them (he motioned with his hands how much food it would be). [/quote]
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