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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't believe there are 30 pages of people arguing whether a healthy marriage requires sex and whether people who sexually abandon their partners might be surprised they have been cheated on.  Is this just two posters?[/quote]

I'm the guy who was the subject of all the scorn for the first 20 pages or so as I tried to answer every question thrown my way until I was answering the same damn questions up to six times.  I can't believe anyone is this clueless wither but, I've read this board for years.  There are a lot of married, middle aged women on this board who love to live in denial.  Me thinks that those who doth protest the most are also those who have given up on sex and they just can't believe that THEIR husband would be like the men we are describing, or me.  Surely, this idea that most men would at least strongly consider cheating after being denied sex for some long period of time, just can't be true.  It certainly can't be the norm for men.  Therefore, it has to be the exception and only for those few men who are: of loose morals, narcissistic, selfish, assholes.  A good man, like their poor suffering husbands, would surely approach her about a divorce before he'd ever take the cheating path.  Or better yet, he would just suck it up and let his sex life die while he takes care of things in the shower.  Really, these women are not that dumb at all.  They just don't want to face (their) reality.

Now all that said, [u]here is a warning for married men who may be neglecting their wives.[/u][b]  The biggest jump in female members on Ashley Madison is right after Mother's day.  That's the day when many women who have been contemplating an affair, finally get fed up and at least put their toe in the water.  The Christmas/New Years holidays and right after Valentine's day are also big days for women to join but the day after mother's day is the biggest.  Take that from a player.  There are a lot of sharks out there who will be checking their accounts, ready to pounce on those new members (and you can sort by new members), all next week.  Treat your woman right or she may find some amount of joy with another man.  Even if she just chats with a bunch to see what it's all about while enjoying the attention.  It's a step in that direction.[/quote]

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