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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Biggest problem = we haven't had sex in nearly 6 years and I literally cannot see myself ever having sex with him again. Why? He's 5'11", weighs 380lbs, suffers from the effects of poor dental hygiene, reads at a 6th level, wears the same clothes everyday and is a slob and pack rat.

Morbid obesity (which he actually use to blame on the kids bcse he was the one who prepared meals) and struggle with reading comprehension = he can't really share in any of the activities I enjoy - hiking, travel, discussing anything other than pop culture or what he's recently watched on Bravo network. Kids are all in college now and frequently breakfast is a pint of ice cream with pop tarts or apple pie, and dinner is Ledo's pizza at least two or three days a week.

The result is what you'd expect...I'm no longer attracted to him. So, no intimacy which means no sex in what is now 6 years. Said he would get counseling for his obvious denial of eating disorder and sugar addiction and just will not follow through. I think he eats this way because he's suffering from depression cause he attributes the food to making him happy. 
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Why did you marry him?[/quote]

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