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[quote=Anonymous][quote=thespiritreader][quote=Anonymous]Hi, Spirit Reader. I wonder if you could give me some guidance on my son. This pandemic has been hard, and his relationship with his father has been even harder on him. And he's depressed, I think. But really not finding his way, as much as I try to help. Am I missing a better way to help him? Will he find his way and be happy and kind again? [/quote] Love is not always convenient, easy or painless! I see that it is very important to trust your heart when you are helping him. Follow your heart, not your mind. Let your love for him be first and foremost - not protecting him from x, stopping y, guiding him to z. Your son is level-headed and he will be able to see his father objectively. It is hard for him because he also loves his father and sees parts of himself in him. But you need not be concerned, for your son will adjust his priorities and find balance. You can help him by speaking truth when your son is confused, affirming his feelings. Depression comes when we cannot accept things. When we lack acceptance for ourselves and our feelings, for our views and our choices, for our experiences we can feel some depression. Sometimes it is hard to accept ourselves not being able to accept the treatment of another. So if your son finds his father difficult, and feels badly around him, but is not quite ready to accept this, he will feel some depression. He might feel this is bad, or that he could do better. You can help model this for him by accepting things in your own life. You can help affirm him whenever you can in all his relationships, that his discernment is alive and functioning well. He will come through. I really see a lot of balance being restored and as it has come up in two different ways, I see this happening fairly soon. - the spirit reader[/quote] Thank you so much! I really appreciate your time and guidance. [/quote]
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