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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pp poster (the one who started the post with I think it’s patience).  Also have to let your wife know how important sex is to you.  I’m not sure I knew until i heard it and really processed it.

Take up that challenge where you do everything she does for a year and let us know how you fare.[/quote]

No no no, she [i]chooses[/i] to do a lot of things - kids’ school, kids’ ballet, church stuff - that I am not going to even attempt to do after working 50 hours a week. That’s her choice; she is choosing to be overloaded, to fail.[/quote]

I'm the poster who recommended you take on your wife's chores for a year.

All I hear from you is excuses (my wife doesn't do x, she does too much of y etc.).   Do you really want to make this happen and make it happen with your wife?  You backing out on this for a year means you acknowledge that your wife is overworked.

Dude, kids and school activities are not negotiable (didn't you also want kids in your relationship?).  What are you thinking?  There may be some other activities that may be negotiable.

You sound like you want to do the right thing.  Just find a way.  I'd be fired at my work if all I ever did is find excuses for why things can't happen rather than solutions.

Where are your solutions that are fair to you and your wife/kids?  [/quote]

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