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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pp poster (the one who started the post with I think it’s patience).  Also have to let your wife know how important sex is to you.  I’m not sure I knew until i heard it and really processed it.

Take up that challenge where you do everything she does for a year and let us know how you fare.[/quote]

No no no, she [i]chooses[/i] to do a lot of things - kids’ school, kids’ ballet, church stuff - that I am not going to even attempt to do after working 50 hours a week. That’s her choice; she is choosing to be overloaded, to fail.[/quote]

yes she should give up things she likes, like the church and stop being a good mom. [/quote]

I have to say that I would be receptive if my husband told me that he felt like kids' ballet and church stuff was causing problems in our marriage or our family because he wanted to spend more time at home together or he just wanted to see me more relaxed at the end of the day.  
Sometimes I take on stuff because of social pressure to take it, and I just keep doing it out of habit and this sort of belief that I can do more than other people can.  I would definitely take a hard look at my to do list if DH thought it was causing an issue.  [/quote]

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