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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ it did get better over time but it took some time.

To the pp, it isn’t only about chores.  It’s about turning on her mind.  Only you know what would work best for her.

It’s about how considerate you are, how good attractive you make her feel about herself even when you don’t expect anything sexual for example.  It’s not chores per se, it’s about being mindful of what she’s going through, acknowledging it, helping where it counts.  Not sure if it makes sense.  
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Man who had an affair and I get this.  Easier said than done.  I thought about the way I treated AP - flirted with her, made her feel special, listened to her, brought her occasional small gifts - and realized I wasn't doing that for my wife.  [b]Problem is, even if I sent her flirty texts or gifts, she wouldn't be receptive to either.  Point being, the wife has to be responsive to advances for this to work.[/quote][/b]

Your wife might not be responsive to flirtation if you have not reached the level of being an equal partner in your day to day life.  For example, if she is doing the bulk of the chores, social planning, child rearing, and financial planning, she doesn’t have any bandwidth to respond to romantic overtures from you.

DH probably does more chores than I do.  But he is too tired to be romantic a lot.  We are both tired at this stage in life![/quote]

You are typical male with an erect penis.  You think flirty texts or gifts would get your wife to have sex with you.  LOL.  You're dumb.  It takes a lot more than that - how about you be a parent and a partner?  It most likely will take a few years to earn back the damage your lack of participation caused.

FOr now, focus on parenting and supporting her and your household.  Keep your penis in your pants![/quote]

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