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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why she chose to stay with him, then marry him, then have kids with him is beyond me. She just have really liked that football money lifestyle.

Of course he killed her or had her killed but he was clearly at the crime scene.[/quote]

Let’s not victim blame. Yes, his money and fame clearly come into play because she wouldn’t have even talked to him to start if he was some broke hobo who was married with three kids. She was 18 when they met and started dating and enthralled by his fame and wealth and charisma. And like many victims, likely began to feel so bad about herself over time and so ashamed that she allowed someone to treat her like this, she stayed. Until she really thought she might die. And the worst of it is that is the most dangerous time for a victim of DV is after they leave, and after they set a boundary and the abuser loses their control. So really, a woman’s only hope is that she never even starts dating someone like this. It’s awful. He did it. Nothing she did or did not do caused it, and she couldn’t have changed it. [/quote]

I bet he was also a doting dad and really charming when he wasn’t in a rage fest.  And he clearly “loved” her in his way.  It’s hard to leave all that.  You end up making a lot of justifications….how he had a rough childhood and he really needs you to save him from himself, he’ll be so depressed if you leave and the kids need their father, etc….he may have also said he had great lawyers and would make sure she didn’t get custody of the kids (a very realistic threat, given that he did have great lawyers).  And it seems like her family wasn’t totally supportive of her — they seemed to like OJ. Who was probably super charming with them.  So I can imagine it being really hard.  [/quote]

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