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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think one problem is that you keep talking about wanting sex, and not about wanting sex with her.  If she feels that you just want sex, and that it really could be with anybody or anything, well... she is a woman.  this is definitely going to turn 90% of women off.  If instead you spoke of a strong need to express your deep love for her physically, that is something that most woman will listen to...  You may not like this, but most women are this way.  I think eventually most woman would stop wanting to have sex with you if you don't learn to give them what they need as well, and it seems you don't know what their needs are or care in any way to satisfy them (to feel loved, to feel beautiful, to feel special)[/quote]

+1 million, yes.[/quote]

I agree with this as well.  My ex used to tell me how much he wanted sex as well.  I felt that it was the need for him vs. the mutual desires of both.  It felt like I was his recepticle.  Also, he started witholding things I cared about because he felt his needs were not getting met (foot rubs, hugs, etc).  It was a vicious cycle because those are the small things that would have made me want to be with him.

Anyway, here's an interesting article I came across this morning "Is Bad Sex a Good Enough Reason to Divorce?"  Much of it rang true for me and will probably ring true for others:

http://thewomanformerlyknownasbeautiful.com/2012/12/is-bad-sex-a-good-enough-reason-to-divorce.html
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