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Do you feel it's up to your spouse to make you want more sex?

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I think he has an obligation to try, yes, just like I do.  It's called compromise.  Try it sometime.[/quote]

Do you ever want sex just for sex's sake, or is it always about making love for you? This is one thing I do not think LD spouses, especially LD women, understand.  Sex can (and should, IMO) cover the full range of desire - pure physicality, almost pure emotional connection and every kind of lovemaking in between. If you insist that your partner try to make you want sex every time, that's not going to lead to more sex.[/quote]

No, frankly, I don't ever want sex just for the sake of it anymore.  I can't gin up some physical "want" that I don't have.  Does this make me an evil troll?  I guess to you it does.  So again, I say, WTF am I supposed to do to address the lack of physical desire?  I'm not in control of my physiology in that aspect anymore than you sex-crazed HD's are in charge of yours.  [b]I am willing to work with DH to create a sex life that works for both of us[/b].  Somehow that's apparently not good enough, and I should flagellate myself daily to atone for the deep, dark sin of not wanting to have sex constantly.[/quote]

That would be half the battle won for me, the OP.[/quote]

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