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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is low desire and then there is low desire for THAT PERSON.

That is what happened to DH and me. We screwed up. We let resentments build up. We held grudges instead of forgiving. We didn't deal with things. And then sex becomes easier to do with yourself, or for DH, to use porn (I don't need porn, just my hand and a few quiet minutes and I get have a multiple orgasm that lasts several minutes).

It's hard to be married and be with someone for years and have kids with them and not build up resentments.

I don't know the answer, but if you are still reading OP, it sounds like both you and your wife have checked out of the marriage. Counseling could help. It helped us. Also, just a lot of hard work, recommitting to the marriage, putting her first even when you really, really don't want to. That's really hard but if you make changes, I can almost guarantee you will too. Work on the marriage and reconnecting as friends and then the sex issues start resolving.[/quote]

+1000 - Kudos.  Great answer.[/quote]

I have basically been saying the same this entire thread and have been attacked repeatedly.[/quote]

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