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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know of any interpretation of karma -- Buddhist, Hindu, or otherwise -- that would blame the person harmed by an evil deed. It is very much about the person choosing to do good deeds or ill and what type of fruit it will bear in their own lives. Karma is not about victim-blaming, and it's certainly not about schadenfreude, but rather about encouraging people to live moral lives.[/quote] If you believe in Karma, a victim of one evil deed may be a perpetrator of a previous one. So the subsequent evil deed may just be karma for the first. [/quote] Nope. I refuse to believe somebody that is raped or abused or a victim of a violent robbery or murdered or a betrayed spouse is getting karma served. I do believe the person committing those moral bad deeds and/or crimes is a bad seed/liar/morally corrupt/lacks empathy, etc. And, I do think a person that acts with such blatant disregard for others and is okay with lying, deceiving and causing harm will have it catch up to them. It's a rotten core.[/quote] And I do think there is a lot of mental gymnastics by cheaters all the time---even in : oh the betrayed deserved it because of something in their past. Give me a break. [/quote] I am not sure how you can believe in karma and not believe that some of the bad things happening to them is karma. If not, then karma never happens or always happens right away so that everybody can see an immediate link to the act that called for it. Short story: The whole idea of karma is similar to heaven and hell. You need to play dumb to believe in it. [/quote]
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