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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So is this one of the threads Jeff was referring to that has been posted by the same woman in the last few days?   Referenced in the post he just locked down about OP’s husband telling his AP that OP is revolting?

OP, if that is you, all I can say is there is no way out of this mess until you get tired enough of mistreatment and tired enough of feeling the way you feel now. Then and only then will you feel better. I really do wish you the best. It’s not fun being lost like this. [/quote]

I'd love for the OW to get hit by Karma, but in this case OP is trying to make herself feel better any way but the only way that would actually work: leaving her husband. Nothing else is going to scratch that itch, OP.

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Bingo !!!![/quote]
Also Karma! But people don’t like to think about that. And plotting revenge never brings good karma. [/quote]

I sometimes wonder ... so many folks suggest the that they expect the spouse's APs to get "hit with Karma" -- but have you considered that your spouse and their AP are YOUR Karma for something crappy you've done in the past?? Sometimes, most of the time, all of the time ... you aren't the innocent or pure one. Nobody is. "Karma" doesn't always work in the way you think it does.

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Ouch!  :lol:

Those who believe in Karma don't think this deeply about how it really works. Lol[/quote]

Yeah. I've seen the betrayed spouse coming out the best in most of these situations. It's not a bad final outcome so I don't see it as karma working against him/her.

My neighbor has a wonderful new life partner and a second home, kids are all launched. She is having the time of her life.  Spouse has newborn twins at age 51, OW 45...and they are miserable. He is cash-strapped now after the divorce settlement.  The kids from his first marriage lost all respect for him and last I heard--strong rumors he's now cheating on the 2ndwife/OW.
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Thank goodness these folks have you to keep tabs on and share all the "strong rumors" about them.  [/quote]

I wonder what the karma is for gossiping online about struggling people?[/quote]

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