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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Any word on the coaches for 2011 girls? Valor moved one of their only good coaches to the 2011 top team after last year's coach left with
the best players for SYC. The second team coach was a parent coach this year. [/quote]

Looking at the coaching staff, MB does not have a girl on the 2011 team. She is a great coach and has a good reputation coaching Chantilly's varsity team. We need to stop spitting out rumors. [/quote]

DV is her co-coach and has a daughter on the team.[/quote]

+1. That team is parent-coached. You need to check your facts before claiming other people are "spitting out rumors".[/quote]

As a parent on that team, he is the assistant. He is also her assistant at Chantilly. I like having two coaches and he is great with the girls. [/quote]

And he has a kid on the team, right? [/quote]

Why are you so worked up?[/quote]

Nobody is "worked up" but you seem awfully defensive about a plain fact.

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No I am sure they are just wondering who hurt you?  Parents coach their own kids all the time.  Deion just had both of his sons on a college football team.  You squak about it more than the talking heads on espn.  [/quote]

You seem to be the one taking this personally for some very mysterious reason.

Everyone else is just talking objective facts. Did the coach have a kid on the team or not? Some people think thats a deal breaker others do not.

If Valor just published their coach list like a normal org with info on the coaches, parents wouldn't have to play Guess Who.[/quote]

"dId ThE cOaCh HaVe A kId On ThE tEaM oR nOt" some of y'all are so weird about this. Would you rather have a less qualified coach that doesn't have a child on the team? Should Valor have a DEI office that makes sure there are an even amount of childless coaches?[/quote]

There is no advantage in a "parent coach" situation for the other families. Only negatives. Why can't Valor hire professional coaches?

Why won't pp answer the question about whether the 2011 coach has a kid on the team he coaches? If it doesn't matter at all, then why not just admit it instead of 1) talk about how great the coach is and then 2) deflect?
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I could name multiple advantages to having a parent coach...

- Understands parent schedules (b/c they are one)
- Understands the kids better (b/c they have their own)
- Knows how to communicate on and off the field with kids that age (b/c they have their own)
 
Shall I keep going?

It is flat out diabolical to even suggest that having a child on the team diminishes another coaches ability to coach other players. But by all means, do a disservice to your own child and put them on a team with a less qualified coach solely b/c that coach is childless  :roll: [/quote]

These are generic advantages to a human being a parent.

We are specifically talking about a parent coaching his own child, on the same team as your child.

Now do those advantages. [/quote]

Name the disadvantages... besides your child not being better than the coach's child... b/c lets be honest here, that's your real gripe. If the coach's kid was terrible, you wouldn't care... but their kid is clearly better than your kid lol[/quote]

So many ways this dynamic can go wrong and none of it benefits the other children. I would never put my kid in this situation to begin with. You do you, though. Free country.[/quote]

Probably b/c your kid is also worse than the coach’s kid[/quote]

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