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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yet another sexless marriage here.  Once a month (maybe twice) is not enough.  Plus DW hardly every initiates.   To all you HD (high desire) spouses out there, if you had know your spouse would be LD (low desire), would you have gotten married?  I feel trapped now with 2 young kids.  I love them and all but the lack of sex sucks big time.  It's probably not enough of a reason to get divorced BUT it would have been so much better if I had choosen a mate that was HD instead of LD.

Is it acceptable to say somethign like that to a spouse? ----&gt; &quot;If I had know this was the case, I probably wouldn't have married you.&quot;[/quote]

WARNING - Biggest regret of my life when I said those words to my husband.  Somethings cannot ever be taken back, so be careful what you say in the moment.

Marriages have their ups and their downs.  If you hang in there, you may eventually make it back to the good times.  Life with young kids is HARD - for the both of you.  You both just probably express stress in different ways.

Don't tell her something you may end up regretting later.  Talk about your issues.  Get professional help if it is a deal breaker for you and maybe the both of you can meet somewhere half way and find happiness again.[/quote]

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