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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is this a normal thing? I’ve never heard of it, but a friend posted their daughter’s online today asking for rec letters for rush. [/quote] Make sure the Social Resume includes details on Mommy. This is a BIG deal with Southern Sororities… First we have to know how much of a superficial loser the mom is…. 1) Did she marry her husband for money? 2) Are her nails always done? 3) Full make up anytime she leaves the house? 4) Clothing mirrors that of a wannabe socialite? Quiet Luxury is a foreign concept 5) despite never going to a TOP school, the prestige of DD college makes up a big part of her life? 6) Has some connections through daddy or husband and think she belongs If 5 of those are CHECKS, then yes, you can move on to your own social resume and chances are you are closer to your (mom’s) dream of you making it into the sorority they didn’t….Then WELCOME to the “Find me a husband club”[/quote] You've clearly never been to the UES of NYC/suburbs of CT/Boston/ if you think these six criteria apply only to Southern women. The names of the top schools and basic grooming habits (makeup choices/clothing brands) change, but the sentiment is the same. Your value (and your kid's social currency) is based on your family's financial and educational pedigree, looks, and a high HHI. Spouse choice has and always will matter to you and to your children. There will always be social competition in private and work life - and "intelligent" people catch on quickly and adapt. It only gets more real and more intense the closer you get to C-suite jobs. If you don't know this, you are probably a teenager with a bad attitude. [/quote] No matter how far we’ve come, and all this talk at DCUM about education, t20, t50, 100, teaching quality, etc are all just a nice excuse for women to find a husband with money/connections. Everything else is secondary. The sad part is that this behavior is engrained into these girls heads by their striver mommy……shame shame shame . You are NO BETTER than AFGHAN, INDIAN or MIDDLE EASTERN families that arrange marriages…[/quote]
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