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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't get this discussion: I always hear that cheating is about opportunity and so why is it so bad to say to limit close exposure like in this situation?[/quote] Exactly this. Eliminate the opportunity. There is nothing wrong with doing this. Clearly DH has already [b]noticed nanny, commented on her and mulled over her attractiveness[/b]. It's a human reaction. Relationship 101 is not putting yourself in situations where conflict can occur. Nobody is perfect so do your best to put your marriage on the best path. And yes, a household employee is completely different from an office employee. It is a significantly more intimate relationship working in someone's home. Why are we too PC to understand that?[/quote] noticed the nanny - he's not blind, every single person will notice her because she's a living, breathing human being within their line of vision commented on her - told his friend she was hot mulled over her attractiveness - you are reaching here and having to fabricate facts to make your narrative fit because this didn't happen[/quote]
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