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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly it’s kind of gross to me that these people even had a conversation about it. I get that it happens, but the idea of a group of people discussing the appearance of any woman behind their backs in these terms is sad to me. It’s sexual objectification of somebody who didn’t ask to be sexually objectified and that doesn’t seem okay to me. I don’t see how it’s that different from talking about somebody in an explicitly sexual way, like “she would be great in bed” or “her butt is super tight.” Why even have this conversation? Among grown adults? But that’s the way of the world I guess. [/quote]
Do you honestly not know any men?  It’s what they do and when together they talk about it.  Heck women do to.  Do you not do this with your friends?  “Wow!  That barista has hot.”  Does that mean the next time you go there you slip him your phone number or a hotel room key?  Of course not.  Also, we women are pretty bad about objectifying the looks of other women and making some pretty horrible comments about each other.  OPs husband made a innocent comment, that’s it.  Everyone needs to get a grip![/quote]

The harpies in here are so insecure, they are all afraid of what men might do.  It's not that they don't know men, they just want to be in denial that their DH is actually like other men.  All other men.[/quote]

I don’t do that. My friends and I would never sit around with my friends and talk about how my pool boy is hot. And if I did and it got back to my hisband I would feel chagrined about it. But [b]I get that not everybody has my same values[/b].

And I’m not insecure about my body, but I think we need to be kinder to those who are insecure. A lot of people are talking about how people need to be careful about hiring a nanny hotter than you are, so it’s clear that people consider the position OP is in precarious. Why wouldn’t somebody who is hearing that kind of thing feel a little insecure? Life is really unkind to aging women and we shouldn’t expect all women to be perfectly secure. [/quote]

Your morality medal is in the mail.[/quote]

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