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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly it’s kind of gross to me that these people even had a conversation about it. I get that it happens, but the idea of a group of people discussing the appearance of any woman behind their backs in these terms is sad to me. It’s sexual objectification of somebody who didn’t ask to be sexually objectified and that doesn’t seem okay to me. I don’t see how it’s that different from talking about somebody in an explicitly sexual way, like “she would be great in bed” or “her butt is super tight.” Why even have this conversation? Among grown adults? But that’s the way of the world I guess. [/quote]

Since when is two people a group?

One person made a comment to another.

OP never said anything about a group discussion or a discussion period.  Sounds like it was three comments at three separate times.

Jim said to Steve, “our nanny is hot”

Steve said Jill “Jim said their new nanny is hot/attractive.”

[b]It is totally normal for two guys who are friends to talk about a woman (nanny or not) being hot.[/b] The friend shouldn't have told his wife--that was dumb. And that wife should not have told OP, but she was clearly trying to bother OP. OP took the bait.

Jill said to Suzy “Steve said Jim told him your new nanny is hot.”

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Okay I didn't realize exactly how the conversations went, but to me it makes it even worse that two guys were discussing how hot the nanny is. But obviously that's just my opinion! [/quote][/quote]

I'm aware that it's "normal" in that it happens a lot and isn't a sign of terrible character. Lots of things that are "normal" aren't okay with me. Frankly I don't think that you should say something behind your spouse's back that you wouldn't be okay with them hearing. [/quote]

This.[/quote]

I wouldn't care if my husband said behind my back that our nanny is hot and then I found out about it. Like, not one bit.[/quote]

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