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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, you have the conversation so you can live an honest life and so your spouse knows the truth of their own life.  This could go bad in so many ways.  What if the DH of his AP finds out and goes crazy?  What if AP is a co-worker and it risks the cheater's job if discovered?  If his own kids find out, it is very likely to impact his relationship with them . . . kids normally would be protective of their mom in this situation.  This would affect how his own family of origin, inlaws, friends, coworkers, neighbors will see him - but he knows this, and is selfish, so it's better for him to sneak around and hope no one finds out.  [/quote]

What if the cheated on wife goes crazy :lol: ?

Nobody ever thinks of that scenario.  They assume she is a doormat.  Often, they are very strong women that cheater is afraid of.

:lol:   Some make it a long-term mission to destroy both spouse and AP.  The smart ones know how to lie low and poke and strike when they are least expecting it.

Why do the two cheaters get off free??  Often when one spouse finds out, the affair is ended and the AP partner is set free with no worries and does not have to suffer the damage that the innocent party she inflicted this damage on is going through.  That is unacceptable.  He/She should be forced to pay consequences. Even marriage counselors highly recommend telling the clueless spouse because his/her health and family safety is being put in jeopardy.[/quote]

You will never know what a spouse will do. Just Google some of the cases. Recently a couple relocated for his job, she was moving them while he was in another state. Had an affair with his boss and refused to end it. She confronted the OW and told her employer who ended up firing her. Still this loser refused to leave the couple alone.  Finally she broke into her house, and shot her then herself.  All 3 of these people had advanced degrees. I remember hearing about a lady years ago who got a hold of the OW, and they cut all her hair off. Weird but if you come between someones family it's definitely taking a big risk. [/quote]

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