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Anonymous wrote:PP, you have the conversation so you can live an honest life and so your spouse knows the truth of their own life. This could go bad in so many ways. What if the DH of his AP finds out and goes crazy? What if AP is a co-worker and it risks the cheater's job if discovered? If his own kids find out, it is very likely to impact his relationship with them . . . kids normally would be protective of their mom in this situation. This would affect how his own family of origin, inlaws, friends, coworkers, neighbors will see him - but he knows this, and is selfish, so it's better for him to sneak around and hope no one finds out.

What if the cheated on wife goes crazy ?

Nobody ever thinks of that scenario. They assume she is a doormat. Often, they are very strong women that cheater is afraid of.

Some make it a long-term mission to destroy both spouse and AP. The smart ones know how to lie low and poke and strike when they are least expecting it.

Why do the two cheaters get off free?? Often when one spouse finds out, the affair is ended and the AP partner is set free with no worries and does not have to suffer the damage that the innocent party she inflicted this damage on is going through. That is unacceptable. He/She should be forced to pay consequences. Even marriage counselors highly recommend telling the clueless spouse because his/her health and family safety is being put in jeopardy.

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Anonymous wrote:My spouse’s old ugly middle aged non-working AP is in crisis mode deleting all of her social media accounts and internet presence. I love she’s freaking out.

I had all of that info downloaded and saved before confronting her on internet phone call.

I have a lot of “fun” in store for her over the next year.

She is a repeat Ashley Madison whore. Multiple affairs in her husband’s bed/kids’ home. Never thought she would get caught.

This seems like a waste of energy to me. But it ain’t my life. *shrug*

Hell No. It sounds fun and like victory to mentally torment and destroy the marriage of somebody that helped ruin your life, and your kids as well. They destroy both the past and the future of the cheated spouse.

Karma will most likely take care of them both and they have to live with themselves on their death beds, but until karma kicks in gotta give a little yourself.

If more cheated on spouses did this Ashley Madison would start losing customers.

The sick part was my spouse and I had a very healthy sex life- several times per week-while he was screwing her unprotected so I was getting all of her germs for 4 years unknowingly and her husband was getting my husband’s. And, that poor guy had to sleep in the bed they screwed in. Not even washing the sheets after. Nasty

Something tells me this all kind of turns you on in a perverse sort of way.

In the vomiting several times a day when I think of it way? Having to figure out how to get STD tested during a pandemic way? In a knowing she met men on the Internet and screwed them unprotected on first meeting for decades? Worrying I will end up with HPV related cancer because of this whore?

You are an A-hole. No matter. She’s going down and her husband will be notified so that he can get tested as well.

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Anonymous wrote:My spouse’s old ugly middle aged non-working AP is in crisis mode deleting all of her social media accounts and internet presence. I love she’s freaking out.

I had all of that info downloaded and saved before confronting her on internet phone call.

I have a lot of “fun” in store for her over the next year.

She is a repeat Ashley Madison whore. Multiple affairs in her husband’s bed/kids’ home. Never thought she would get caught.

This seems like a waste of energy to me. But it ain’t my life. *shrug*

Hell No. It sounds fun and like victory to mentally torment and destroy the marriage of somebody that helped ruin your life, and your kids as well. They destroy both the past and the future of the cheated spouse.

Karma will most likely take care of them both and they have to live with themselves on their death beds, but until karma kicks in gotta give a little yourself.

If more cheated on spouses did this Ashley Madison would start losing customers.

The sick part was my spouse and I had a very healthy sex life- several times per week-while he was screwing her unprotected so I was getting all of her germs for 4 years unknowingly and her husband was getting my husband’s. And, that poor guy had to sleep in the bed they screwed in. Not even washing the sheets after. Nasty

Something tells me this all kind of turns you on in a perverse sort of way.

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Anonymous wrote:To all those cheaters who "assume" their spouses know, why don't you have an honest conversation and tell them, instead of lying to them about your whereabouts and communications? If you "assume" they know, why not tell the truth instead of lie?

For the same reason you don't tell your wife she looks fat in that dress or your husband he isn't actually better looking as a bald guy. Just because someone know something doesn't mean you need to humiliate them with it.

You really think someone several months or years into a sexless marriage is suddenly celibate?

But it's her fault that you're cheating, and she already must know anyway, right? So why not tell her instead of lie? Surely she'll understand and not care.

Bc you're afraid of the consequences of your actions? Bc you want to have cake and eat it, too?

I hope his wife finds out and turns out to be like the other 2 cheated on wives above and frickin’ blows his world and his AP’s world apart.

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Anonymous wrote:To all those cheaters who "assume" their spouses know, why don't you have an honest conversation and tell them, instead of lying to them about your whereabouts and communications? If you "assume" they know, why not tell the truth instead of lie?

For the same reason you don't tell your wife she looks fat in that dress or your husband he isn't actually better looking as a bald guy. Just because someone know something doesn't mean you need to humiliate them with it.

You really think someone several months or years into a sexless marriage is suddenly celibate?

But it's her fault that you're cheating, and she already must know anyway, right? So why not tell her instead of lie? Surely she'll understand and not care.

Bc you're afraid of the consequences of your actions? Bc you want to have cake and eat it, too?

asked, and answered. Now file that under, DUHHHH!!

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Anonymous wrote:My spouse’s old ugly middle aged non-working AP is in crisis mode deleting all of her social media accounts and internet presence. I love she’s freaking out.

I had all of that info downloaded and saved before confronting her on internet phone call.

I have a lot of “fun” in store for her over the next year.

She is a repeat Ashley Madison whore. Multiple affairs in her husband’s bed/kids’ home. Never thought she would get caught.

This seems like a waste of energy to me. But it ain’t my life. *shrug*

Hell No. It sounds fun and like victory to mentally torment and destroy the marriage of somebody that helped ruin your life, and your kids as well. They destroy both the past and the future of the cheated spouse.

Karma will most likely take care of them both and they have to live with themselves on their death beds, but until karma kicks in gotta give a little yourself.

If more cheated on spouses did this Ashley Madison would start losing customers.

The sick part was my spouse and I had a very healthy sex life- several times per week-while he was screwing her unprotected so I was getting all of her germs for 4 years unknowingly and her husband was getting my husband’s. And, that poor guy had to sleep in the bed they screwed in. Not even washing the sheets after. Nasty

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To all those cheaters who "assume" their spouses know, why don't you have an honest conversation and tell them, instead of lying to them about your whereabouts and communications? If you "assume" they know, why not tell the truth instead of lie?

For the same reason you don't tell your wife she looks fat in that dress or your husband he isn't actually better looking as a bald guy. Just because someone know something doesn't mean you need to humiliate them with it.

You really think someone several months or years into a sexless marriage is suddenly celibate?

But it's her fault that you're cheating, and she already must know anyway, right? So why not tell her instead of lie? Surely she'll understand and not care.

Bc you're afraid of the consequences of your actions? Bc you want to have cake and eat it, too?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My spouse’s old ugly middle aged non-working AP is in crisis mode deleting all of her social media accounts and internet presence. I love she’s freaking out.

I had all of that info downloaded and saved before confronting her on internet phone call.

I have a lot of “fun” in store for her over the next year.

She is a repeat Ashley Madison whore. Multiple affairs in her husband’s bed/kids’ home. Never thought she would get caught.

This seems like a waste of energy to me. But it ain’t my life. *shrug*

Hell No. It sounds fun and like victory to mentally torment and destroy the marriage of somebody that helped ruin your life, and your kids as well. They destroy both the past and the future of the cheated spouse.

Karma will most likely take care of them both and they have to live with themselves on their death beds, but until karma kicks in gotta give a little yourself.

If more cheated on spouses did this Ashley Madison would start losing customers.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To all those cheaters who "assume" their spouses know, why don't you have an honest conversation and tell them, instead of lying to them about your whereabouts and communications? If you "assume" they know, why not tell the truth instead of lie?

For the same reason you don't tell your wife she looks fat in that dress or your husband he isn't actually better looking as a bald guy. Just because someone know something doesn't mean you need to humiliate them with it.

You really think someone several months or years into a sexless marriage is suddenly celibate?

But it's her fault that you're cheating, and she already must know anyway, right? So why not tell her instead of lie? Surely she'll understand and not care.

Bc you're afraid of the consequences of your actions? Bc you want to have cake and eat it, too?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To all those cheaters who "assume" their spouses know, why don't you have an honest conversation and tell them, instead of lying to them about your whereabouts and communications? If you "assume" they know, why not tell the truth instead of lie?

For the same reason you don't tell your wife she looks fat in that dress or your husband he isn't actually better looking as a bald guy. Just because someone know something doesn't mean you need to humiliate them with it.

You really think someone several months or years into a sexless marriage is suddenly celibate?

Anonymous wrote:To all those cheaters who "assume" their spouses know, why don't you have an honest conversation and tell them, instead of lying to them about your whereabouts and communications? If you "assume" they know, why not tell the truth instead of lie?

Anonymous wrote:My spouse’s old ugly middle aged non-working AP is in crisis mode deleting all of her social media accounts and internet presence. I love she’s freaking out.

I had all of that info downloaded and saved before confronting her on internet phone call.

I have a lot of “fun” in store for her over the next year.

She is a repeat Ashley Madison whore. Multiple affairs in her husband’s bed/kids’ home. Never thought she would get caught.