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It’s a big cycle that starts with a wife losing interest in her husband. She becomes lonely and easily falls into bed with the first rando (not her DH) showing her some male attention.

But it’s NOT because her DH is a fat bald loser! Because this game works the same for her DH: he flirts with a married women (not his DW) and she falls right into bed with him.

[b]It’s just that [u]women are wired to lose interest [/u]in her husband,[/b] so she gets lonely while he goes elsewhere and you extrapolate this across an entire population... everybody is still having plenty of sex, just not with spouse!![/quote]

I think this is exactly true. I was FINE with fat DH until he stopped paying attention to me and our family (yeah, whatever, I don't want to hear it) and I fell (jumped, actually) into bed with the first rando loser who found me attractive.[/quote]
But which came first? You lost all interest (in him) or he stopped paying attention? It has been well established that a man's "game" becomes ineffective over time [u]for the same women[/u]. Meanwhile his exact same "game" can be wildly successful with other women (excepting his wife). Not to mention the requirements a woman has for her housemate husband are never a barrier for the rando dude who merely remarks that she's hot (drops panties).

At least it is equally easy for all to find satisfaction: just pick any married partner (not your spouse) and go.[/quote]

[b]To avoid the issue of losing interest, DH and I liberally use roleplay fantasies. We've done just about every fantasy (non-BDSM or things like that, but nearly always with a light sub/dom dynamic) and it really helps keep things interesting![/b] [/quote]

Your husband is a lucky man because you took responsibility for that hard-wiring.  Most women find it easier to blame the husband for something he has no control of and either cheat or condemn him to a nearly sexless marriage. [/quote]

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