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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]10:58 wins my award for most amazing wronged wife story. Hats off to that woman & so awed by her ability to do the right AND expedient, smart thing. Holy sh*t.[/quote]

x a million (guy here).[/quote]

On their behalf, thank you both! She really is the most amazing woman I know. Incredible sense of duty, empathy, and playing the long game. [/quote]

The woman was an angel and a little naive too.

I think I have a similar sense of of duty and empathy.

But there is no way I would live with the babysitter and husband in the same house. What if the husband started sleeping with the babysitter under their own roof and her children saw it? She is lucky it did not happen, but that is a likely scenario. Is that even a wise way to "play the long game"?

I would find a room for the sitter somewhere and keep her child, if possible.

And there is no way I am having sex with a man who slept with our babysitter. I can be nice in public and at home, but letting that man inside me will not happen.[/quote]

In the story as told, her long game was to keep the house and preserve stability for her kids, plus buy time for getting an education and financial independence. It wasn't to restore the marriage.  To pull this scenario off without constant heartbreak, a woman would need to pretty much stop caring about her husband. And a husband like that probably doesn't deserve a caring wife. [/quote]

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