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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I see this from two perspectives, on one hand I think that there  are some spouses who are just too nagging. Those types can benefit from letting up and just letting each other breathe. But what some of you describe sounds like you're just married to say you're married and you don't do anything as a team. I recently "stopped caring" in a relationship and I left him. I wasn't going to just say "well I don't care" -!: compromise what my standards and wants in life are. You can easily "I don't care" you're life into the ground. I feel like it is a bit of a lean in just to say that you don't care and you'll just go along with whatever for the sake of the relationship. So yes, sometimes simply backing off can help... but When it hurts more than it helps, it's no longer worth it. [/quote]

I'm guessing you don't have children.[/quote]

I don't, but I don't think that children of two detached, emotionally divorced parents living in the same home will fare any better than the parents who just call it what it is- divorce. What is the point of just staying to gether when everyone (including your kids) know that you are unhappy and the two of you simply live separate lives in the same home. [/quote]

You keep posting your theories, yet you have no experience in how to manage a less-than-happy marriage and you have no children. You don't understand this kind of situation until you live it. Maybe you should let people who understand things speak here, and you listen, instead of arguing with their experience. There is much insight, speaking from much experience, in this thread.[/quote]

Yeah and sometimes it takes an outsider to tell you that you are fucked up. What is the point of this existence? [/quote]

Stability and money. That's the whole point. [/quote]

Lordy. Now I've seen it all. Money!

Gross.

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