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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It can be very confusing for an 18 or 19 year old boy when he is with a girl and they both been drinking heavily in regards to where the line is...especially if he has no explicit conversations with anyone about the exact parameters of what constitutes consent.

In many cases, you are asking a boy whose judgment is impaired to make judgment calls on the amount of impairment of the girl, something that can be very hard for him to do. A boy can be drunk and not realize the girl is as drunk or drunker than he is.[/quote]

I would expect a kid who gets into Stanford to realize that he should not finger a woman who is unconscious behind a dumpster.[/quote]

But he was a DRUNK kid who got into Stanford. Brains and rational thought go out the window when you're that drunk. Women can't trust someone like that to care what they're doing. [/quote]

True fact: I drank a lot of alcohol in college and did not finger any unconscious women behind a dumpster.[/quote]

True fact: Not everyone has the same intelligence level, emotional maturity, social experience, impulse control, ability to handle alcohol,etc.[/quote]

How about when in doubt, don't have sex with the person. No mental gymnastics or genius needed. Can't figure it out? THEN JUST STOP.[/quote]

Okay, so should he be asking her for permission for every single thing he does? Is he supposed to ask for permission to kiss her first? At each stage of the progression does he need to stop and ask her if what he's doing is Ok? What about when she is progressing things in her own physical manner? What is the conversation then? Or isn't there one?

Again, how many drinks constitute her ability to give consent? Does she specifically have to say the word yes, or it's ok?

For the parents of kids who are of the age where this is a pertinent discussion to have, what are the conversations you're having with your children to have with their potential parents regarding consent? [/quote]

The conversation I"m going to have: You don't have to say "can I touch your breast" in a robot voice, but use your words.  Channel Barry White, and say "Hey baby, you look fine and I really want to fool around with you, does that sound good." Say: "I'm really turned on and I want to fuck you, do you want me?" And if you don't know her well enough to ask, or you ask and she doesn't respond, or you ask and she says no, or you ask and you realize she's unconscious and covered in vomit, then you do not have sex with her![/quote]

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