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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Posting this again since the formatting was screwed up:

I would like to know what you HD people would like us to do to increase our desire? I mean really, tell me. If it was within my control I would do it. Porn doesn't do it for me.[/quote]

Don't increase your desire, then. Up to you. Just go through the motions, at least. That's honestly what I want my LD husband to do.  I know he won't love me passionately like I want to be loved, or with much skill, but at least put out.  I refrained from self pleasure for many years after we got married, because I was under the impression I shouldn't have to take care of myself once married. Ha.  I masturbate at least as much as we have sex. Husband would be shocked to find that out.[/quote]

Going through the motions is basically agreeing to be used.  At least that's how it feels to me.[/quote]

Okay then, but can you as an LD woman explain to me as a HD woman what you think my alternatives are?  Sure, I can take care of myself so I don't cheat or divorce. But it won't stop my self esteem from going in the toilet, or flirting with guy friends to make up for the lack of attention at home.  I think it's better for the LD spouse to feel used, a little bit, than have the HD spouse feel chronically frustrated.[/quote]

Well that's because you are not the LD spouse and not the one feeling used for sex.  So that's really easy for you to say.[/quote]

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