Reply to Women 35+ who have never been in a relationship

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Women 35+ who have never been in a relationship"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Reasons why they could be single:
-fat -men generally hate fat women 
-[b]asexual[/b] or closeted lesbians
- [b]autistic-there’s lot of high functioning masked autistic women who just never got diagnosed out there and this makes them have difficult social relationships[/b] 
-[b]overly picky[/b]
-doesn’t leave the house because they wfh and won’t use dating apps
-[b]undiagnosed mental health issues[/b] that make dating for them difficult

[/quote]

This might be me.

-Not really asexual but I don’t like penetration which is what most men tend to like
-I definitely have some kind of neurodivergence. Extremely high functioning: I have lots of friends and a six-figure job, but there’s something about me that people just don’t want to be my partner and live with me. I’m very set in my ways about a lot of things. “Lovable and eccentric” is how my friends would describe me. 
- Of the men who have shown interest in me, too many of them just gave me the ick. Or something was just off about them. Whatever it was, it wasn’t going to work. Not hoping for a 6’4 handsome doctor. I just have to LIKE the guy and there’s so few guys that I LIKE. 
- Mental health, I have trust issues and I’m overly cynical. While my friends think I’m fun and outgoing, I am just not “fun” and light and flirty when dating. I take myself too seriously sometimes.

Years of therapy and I figure this is why I’m single. Meanwhile here on the internet, people are like “maybe it’s cuz you’re fat, just don’t be fat hurr hurr” I’m literally 115 lbs. 
[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics