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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The cheater is to blame.  Next up is the spouse because clearly there was something broken.  The least responsible is the side piece.  It’s not their responsibility to keep your marriage together.  You can hate on them all you want, but it’s only because you actually hate your spouse and yourself. [/quote]

The cheater is to blame. Next up is the spouse because obviously she is a witch controls her poor husband, except when she wants him to not cheat, in which case she fails even at being a good witch. Next up after that is the cheater's mother, who probably loved him too much, or too little. Next up after that is the UPS man, who probably made the BW neglect her husband while she was busy lusting after his little brown shorts. Next up is the coworker who got a promotion that the cheater wanted, because what was the cheater supposed to do, have good self-esteem all on his own? Last, and of course least too, is the OW, who exists on some kind of ethereal plane of awesomeness where other humans' petty little lives matter not. [/quote]

The spouse is typically blaming the cheater’s mother more than her cheating husband.

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What would she get? He dropped her the minute I discovered it and has been completely no contact, doing everything he can to show remorse, work on marriage, etc.  this is for me… [/quote]

Then leave it at that. Seems you are riding high from the “win” so if you’re investors in saving your marriage, then this feeling is a good one.
If you contact her, it will sink that feeling. Bc you’ll start to realize that even though he chose you in the end, he should have chosen you in the beginning and in the middle too, and he didn’t. That’s the flaw.

Don’t revisit this.[/quote]

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